Welcome to the forum!
Many, many of the answers you are seeking are to be found in the afore-mentioned book, as well as this forum. There's a search mechanism near the top of the page, I have used it many times prior to posing a question... I try this as I figure that someone has likely asked and answered my question already!
That having been said, the guys here seem to be incredibly helpful and forthright. I've noticed that I'm probally the most sarcastic here, however some might debate that! Anyway, I'm quick with a joke, and sometimes have to explain myself.